Looking for a serious partner aged 38-43

I am 38 years old and I am looking for a guy (from 38 to 43 years old), normal, calm and seriously thinking about life, who likes to spend active time just like I do. I like to travel and explore interesting places, go somewhere, see something interesting. Mountains, beach, pool, bike. I am not interested in fleeting romances, only a serious relationship with a man who knows what he wants from life. I live in Queens.